The little girl next door was in hospital. For forty-eight hours we were very worried about her; then all that remained was for her to stay in hospital for an additional nine days while an antibiotic was delivered intravenously. For the first few days, family and friends took turns being at her bedside 24 hours a day. Once she was on the
mend, they no longer needed to stay all night or all day, but visited frequently enough that she never feels abandoned.
As I spent time with her at the hospital, it came home again to me that 90% of recovery is letting the body do its thing. Once the doctors have consulted,
examined the results of tests, made a diagnosis, prescribed a treatment and followed up, the rest is up to the nurses and the child’s body.
The nurses come in to check on the IV, add medications, observe the monitors but most importantly, they pay attention to the child. They talk to her and listen to her. They explain what is happening. I have watched them patiently listen to morphine–fuddled child try to explain what she is worried about. They look for ways to comfort a child in pain. Sometimes it’s as simple as a warm facecloth washing a hand temporarily free of the IV. They coax a child to use a hand that is still sore. They brush her
teeth if she doesn’t feel she can cope. They carry the train of IV pole and trailing lines so the child can use the toilet. They persuade children to drink and eat. These are all ways of allowing the body to get on with its share of healing.
One day our patient asked someone “are you a nurse or a doctor?” The nurse told her that you could tell the difference by how much time the person spent with her. The doctors usually didn’t stay long or come more than once a day; patients saw more of the nurses, especially their own nurse. Our patient thought a bit and added, “the nurses talk to me. The cleaners are here a lot but they don’t talk to me.” The nurse smiled at the astute observation, “yes, they don’t want to disturb you if you are resting and they have a lot of work to do cleaning the ward”.
Good nursing is a major factor in healing; it’s as true today as it was two
hundred years ago. So let’s salute nurses everywhere, their professionalism, their knowledge and their compassion. They comfort the patients and their families and are often the first to observe subtle changes in their condition. Especially let us salute the nurses at children’s hospitals and especially at CHEO. For nearly 35 years I have watched them care for children in my family and now the neighbours’ children. Thank you.
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